Jan Fable, MS, LADC
Fairfield Connecticut
203.255.5055

Short-term Counseling for Individuals and Couples;
12 Step Recovery Support and Intervention Services;
and Career Coaching


LOVING
Jan Luckingham Fable

"Over the years, people have often come to me because of an inability to trust and a fear of being abandoned.
Sometimes it's very difficult to accept love when it is given to us."

Your love for me is what I've always dreamed,
but I am afraid.

Your love for me is whole, complete, steadfast,
Within its circle I feel cherished, nourished, supported,
and esteemed;

And yet I want to hide, to run from my fear,
to run from myself.

How can I deserve such love?
I fear I'm not enough;

Soon, you'll see me as I am.
You'll leave me.

Out of my fear
I build a case against you.

Out of my fear of losing you,
I push at you to make you go away.

Out of fear of your leaving me,
my greatest fear occurs

I am alone,

without your love.


Copyright 1972

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JanFable has worked as a psychotherapist for more than 25 years. She has a master's degree in counseling and is a Connecticut licensed drug and alcohol counselor. Her primary training is in Bioenergetic Analysis which deals with the whole person. She has extensive training in the treatment of dissociative disorders and trauma survivors and in using of altered states of consciousness in healing. She has also completed Level I and Level II training in Thought Field Therapy.

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Jan Fable
203.255-5055
Fairfield, Connecticut

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